Hi there everyone,
I have an issue and I think I need some advice. As you are all aware, in January this year, my partner and I welcomed our first child. It was one of the happiest days of my life and I know of his as well. For as long as we have been together he had always said that he didn’t want kids and doesn’t want to get married. I don’t mind not getting married but having children was a big thing for me and I remember when I first found out I was pregnant that when I told him, I thought he would leave. But he didn’t and hasn’t done. But what I have noticed is that, since I have gone back to work, that when he looks after our daughter, there is a lot of “I can’t be bothered” and that in turn bothers me. She is his daughter and while I get that he works full time, he could at least show our daughter the respect of being interested in being a father. Is this too much to ask for really? I feel like it is. I also don’t like having to work myself around his schedule and not getting the same respect back in return. Today is an example. I had an enzyme facial done today and I thought I was only going to be an hour and so that what I said to him. i went to my appointment and it ended up being 2 hours. He wasn’t happy and he let me know in his messages. When I got home I apologised to him and I didn’t get any response at all. Am I just being paranoid or should I say something. Need some advice please.
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